Khwabon Mein Mili Haunsle Ki Khushbu
Khwab (sapne) bhi haunsla aur sukoon de sakte hain agar usmein dekhi gayi cheezon se is duniya mein koi raabta (connection) hai
Khwab (sapna) bhi kya cheez hai. Ek aisi cheez jahan kucch bhi ho sakta hai, sab kucch mumkin hai.
Ham sab khwab dekhte hain, lekin zaruri nahi ki ham sab dekhe gaye khwab ko yaad bhi rakhein. Ham mein se zyadatar log raat ko so jaate hain, kucch khwab dekhte hain, phir subah utthte hain aur agle tees second tak hi kucch halki yaadein rehti hain kisi khwab ki aur uske baad? Sab saaf.
Aapke subah utthne ke tees second baad agar main aap se poochhunga ki kya khwab dekha, toh aapka jawab hoga, “kucch nahin”.
Zyadatar logon ka yahi jawab hoga aur phir aap apni us din ki zindagi ki shuruaat karne mein masroof (busy) ho jaate hain. Ab khwab to aakhir khwab hi hote hain na, sirf ek sapna. Ab sapna ya kisi khwab par kya tawajjo (dhyaan) di jaaye.
Bhai, yahan agla din shuru ho gaya hai, uske masle-masail (challenges) saamne hain, phone bajna shuru ho gaya hai, WhatsApp par pata nahin kitne messages aa chuke hain. Ab insaan in sabko apni tawajjo de ya kisi sard mausam ke kohre jaise khwab par zor daale ki kya dekha aur kyon dekha? Ye toh aaj ke hadd darje ke masroof (busy) insaan (aap aur main) — ham sabke saath nainsaafi hogi.
Kahan wo udte dhuein jaise halke khwab aur kahan aaj ki zindagi ke bhaari masle jo moonh khole hamare saamne khade hain aur chilla rahe ki, “kucch do hamein warna ham tumhe nigal jayenge”.
Ab zimmedariyon ke bojh tale daba hua insaan kya kare? Un chillate hue maslon ko hi kucch khuraak (niwala) deta hai, taaki unka moonh toh band ho aur insaan ko kucch chain toh miley. Yahi toh insaan kar raha har roz. Ab yahan aap chaah rahe hain ki wo apne khwabon par bhi kucch tawajjo de, toh ye zyaadti hogi.
Lekin main khwabon ke baare mein kyun itna bol raha hoon? Kya wajah hai?
Wajah toh hai aur us wajah ka naam hai Janab Syed Gulam Hasnain Naqvi marhoom (Lt Col SGH Naqvi) Ibne Syed Mohammad Salman Naqvi marhoom. Ji haan, main apne walid sahab ki hi baat kar raha hoon. Aap mein se kai log unke chaliswein ki majlis mein shareek hue hain May 12, 2025 ko Lucknow mein.
Mere walid sahab ka inteqaal April 6, 2025 ko hua Lucknow mein, apne ghar mein, aur usi din unki rooh ka inteqaal hua Aalam-e-Barzakh ki taraf.
Ji, maine sahi kaha hai ki unki rooh ka inteqaal hua hai. Baraa-e-meherbani aap ye mat soch baithiyega ki inteqaal ka matlab hota hai ‘maut’. Maut ke mayne duniya ghabrakar samajhti hai ‘sab khatam’, ‘the end’, ‘ab kucch bacha nahin hai’ ya ‘ab kya hoga’.
Ye toh kareeb das din pehle hi mujhe pata chala ki ‘inteqaal’ ka matlab ‘maut’ nahi hota hai, balki iska matlab hota hai ‘transfer’. Transfer matlab kisi cheez ko ek jagah se dusri jagah le jana. Yani mere walid sahab ka asal mein transfer hua hai. Kaise?
Abhi batata hoon.
Inteqaal ke baad mere walid sahab ka jism ham unke ghar se lekar gaye Imdad Husain Khan Karbala, Rajajipuram mein. Wahin ghusl hua, jism ko nehlaya gaya, paak kiya gaya.
Main ghuslkhane mein maujood ttha aur mere saamne hi ghusl diya gaya. Ab choonki maine daddy ki body ko inteqaal ke baad chhua tha toh mujh par bhi ghusl wajib tha (zaruri tha). Toh maine waha ke ghassalon (ghusl dene wale) se kaha ki mujhe bhi ghusl karna hai toh kya kiya jaaye? Kya main ab aas paas ke kisi jaan ne wale ke ghar jaakar ghusl karoo toh daddy ko chhodkar jaana hoga toh ismein time nahi lagega? Toh ghassalo ne fauran kaha ki, “aap yahi ghusl kar lijiye.” Main thoda surprise ho gaya aur tajjub bhi hua. Maine phir poochha, “koi problem toh nahi hai ismein?” Ghassalon ne kaha koi problem nahi. Phir maine wahi ghusl bhi kar liya.
Uske baad ghuslkhaane se kandhaa dete hue ham sab log daddy ki body ko unki kabr tak le aaye. Ab qabr ke andar jaane ke liye main taiyyar ho raha tha, andar jaane hi wala tha ki ek maulana ne mujhe tok diya.
Inhi maulana sahab ne namaz-e-janaza bhi padayi thi daddy ki kucch der pehle. Maulana ne kaha ki “agar aur log hain janaze mein toh bete ka kabr mein jaana sahi nahi hoga.” Exact lafz aur words abhi nahi yaad hain ki Maulana ne kya kaha tha, lekin unhone ye baat kahi aur maine unki baat maan li aur peechhe hat gaya.
Is baat ka mujhe afsos rahega, gussa rahega ki kaise maine maulana ki baat maan li. Unki baat ko nazar andaaz kyu nahi kiya.
Jab har jagah main daddy ke saath tha toh unke aakhri waqt, unki kabr me bhi mujhe hona hi chahiye tha unke saath.
Ab mere paas sahara bas ek lafz (word) ka hai jo hai ‘maslahat’ (allah ki marzi). Maslahat ka maine apne pehle article mein zikr kiya hai. Shayad ye maslahat rahi hogi ki main apne walid sahab ki kabr mein nahi utroo.
Waise inhi maulana sahab ne mujhe tab bhi toka tha jab main ghuslkhaane ke andar jaakar baith gaya tha aur walid sahab ki body ka ghusl shuru hone wala tha. Unhone bahut kaha ki main baahar aa jaaoo, ghassal kar lenge apna kaam achche se, koi problem nahi hogi. Tab maine unko seedha sa jawab diya tha ki “main har jagah daddy ke saath raha hoo, yaha bhi main saath mein hi rehna chahunga.” Meri body language ko dekh kar maulana ko samajh aa gaya tha ki aur kucch bolne se koi fayda nahi hai aur wo chale gaye.
Yahi baat mujhe kaat ti hai jab sochta hoo ki ek jagah jab un maulana sahab ki baat ko nazar andaz kar diya ttha toh unki kahi gayi kabr wali baat ko kaise maan liya maine.
Khair, toh baat ho rahi thi inteqaal ki, transfer ki.
Toh daddy ka jism ham logon ne transfer kar diya tha unke ghar se karbala. Ab baaki thi unki rooh. Toh ab main ye batana chaah raha ki unki rooh ka bhi transfer (inteqaal) usi din April 6 ko hua tha unke ghar se. Unki rooh ka transfer is duniya se ek doosri duniya mein ho gaya.
Bas ab ismein ilaahi nizaam (allah ka system) ye hai ki walid sahab ki rooh unke jism se nikal ke pahuch gayi ‘Alam-e-Barzakh’ mein. Yahi wo jagah hai jahan sab roohein rahengi, qayaam karengi, jab tak qayamat nahi aa jaati. Yahi ilaahi nizam hai jo kai hazaar saalon se chala aa raha hai.
Ab wapas aa jaata hoon khwab par aur apne walid sahab par.
Waise abhi yaad aaya inteqaal ki baat se, ki walid sahab army mein thhe aur saal 1996 mein retire hue tthe. Is beech unki kareeban untis (29) saal ki military service mein walid sahab ka kai baar transfer hua ttha, ek shaher se doosre shaher. Ye bhi ek alag tarah ki zehmat tthi, ki ek jagah se poora rishta khatam karke, samaan uttha ke nikal pado kisi naye shaher mein jaise hi ‘transfer order’ aa jaaye.
Toh ab yahan aap jaan na chahenge ki mere walid sahab ka kya taalluk ya connection baith raha hai khwabon se? Kya raabta ban raha hai khwabon ki duniya se unka? Aakhir majra kya hai?
Ji, bilkul. Abhi samjhata hoo. Hua ye hai ki jab se daddy ka inteqaal hua hai April 6, 2025 ko, mere walid sahab chaar logon ke khwab mein aa chuke hain aaj ki date May 18, 2025 tak. Unhone apni roohani maujudgi ki dastak de di hai.
Ye chaar log kaun hain jinhone daddy ko apne khwab mein dekh liya hai ab tak?
Pehla shaqs ‘main’ (unka bada beta)
Dusra shaqs (hamare ghar ka driver)
Teesra shaqs (rishte mein mere ek mamu)
Chautha shaqs (rishte mein meri ek khala)
Ham chaaron ne daddy ko apne khwab mein dekh liya hai.
Ittefaaq ki baat dekhiye ki mere mamu aur meri khala (dono bhai-behen hain), dono ko ek hi din (May 17, 2025) ko mere walid sahab dikhai de gaye unke khwab mein.
Agar aap mein se kisi ke khwab mein daddy dikhai diye hain (inteqaal ke baad) ya aane wale dino mein dikhai dein, to mujhe zarur bata dijiyega.
Sabse pehle apne khwab ki baat karoo. Maine daddy ko dekha ki wo apne kamre mein lete hue hain, meri taraf peeth karke, bas ek chhota se lamp jal raha hai, main bhi usi kamre mein leta hua hoo. Daddy ne lungi aur koi t-shirt pehni hui hai.
Pehli cheez jo maine note ki wo ye ki maine dekha ki daddy ka pate (stomach) andar hai, bahar bilkul nahi hai, matlab wo slim dikh rahe tthe. Dusri cheez jo maine note ki wo ye ki unke baal kaale hain aur ek accha sa haircut ho rakha hai. Wo sukoon se so rahe hain.
Yahan ye batata chaloo ki inteqaal se chhah (6) mahine pehle se, raat ko, sone ke time par jab wo apne kamre mein jaate tthe, toh mujhse kehte tthe, “Tumhara time nahi hua abhi sone ka? Chalo, aao leto. Tum let jaate ho to mujhe bhi neend sahi aati hai.”
Aaj bhi jab unke kamre mein let ta hoo, toh yahi ummeed karta hoo ki wo jahan honge toh agar neend wali kaifiyat (quality) Alam-e-Barzakh mein hoti hai rooh ke paas, toh waha bhi daddy ko neend sahi aati hogi.
Dusre shaqs hain hamare driver jinhone daddy ko khwab mein dekha. Usne dekha ki wo apne kursi par baittha hai hamare ghar ke gate ke andar wale area mein. Phir daddy ghar ke andar se aaye aur unhone kucch daant te hue kaha, “Tum oongh rahe ho baithhe-baitthe?” toh driver ne phat se bola ki, “Kahan oongh rahe hain” aur uski aankh khul gayi. Ye baat driver ne jab agli subah hamein batai to uski aankhon mein aansu tthe.
Teesre shaqs hain rishte mein mere ek mamu jinhone daddy ko khwab mein dekha. Unhone apne khwab mein dekha ki unke marhoom walid sahab, unke marhoom chacha aur mere daddy Nakhas (Lucknow) ke chaurahe par phoolon ke sehre haath mein liye baithhe hue hain. Daddy kaale rang ka kurta pehne hue tthe. Wo unke paas gaye aur poochha ki, “Aap yahan?” Toh un sabne jawab diya ki wo chehlum ke juloos ka intezaar kar rahe hain aur aane wale alamon par sehre daalenge.
Ye bhi ek ittefaq dekhiye ki May 12 ko daddy ke chehlum ki majlis hui thi aur uske chaar din baad hi daddy dikhayi de gaye mamu ke khwab mein, Maula ke chehlum ke juloos ka intezaar karte hue.
Chautthe shaqs hain rishte mein meri ek khala jinhone daddy ko khwab mein dekha. Unhone dekha ki unke ghar ke imambade ke aage takht par daddy aasmani rang ka kurta pehne hue baitthe hain. Daddy ke paas ek shayar ‘Aamir Uttraulvi’ khade hain aur daddy ka mobile unke haath mein hai aur wo mobile par koi mehfil sun rahe hain. Saamne nazr ka dastarkhwan saja hua hai aur nazr hone ja rahi hai. Tabhi daddy ne mujhe aawaz di, “Raju ko bulao.” Main paas hi ke kamre mein apne ek dusre mamu se baat kar raha ttha. Meri ammi bhi daddy ke paas khadi hui hain.
Ab ye sochiye ki ek hi din mein daddy, do rang ke kurto mein, do logon ko khwab mein dikhai de gaye.
Ab aapko ek aur khwab jo maine dekha hai wo bhi batata chaloo. Do din pehle mujhe apne dada bhi dikhai de gaye khwab mein. Yaani mere daddy ke daddy bhi mere saath thhe us khwab mein. Maine dekha ki main aur dada ek cinema hall mein baithe hue hain. Saamne screen par kucch chal raha hai, uski aawaz aa rahi hai. Phir achanak mere dada soz padhne lage. Soz shok mein padha jaata hai gehri bhawna se, jismein Karbala ke shaheedo aur Karbala ke ghamgeen (sad) waqeye (happening) ko yaad kiya jaata hai.
Jab dada soz padhne lage to main bhi unke saath hi baitha hua ttha. Maine dekha ki dada ne wahi brown colour ki do-palli topi pehni hui hai jo mujhe yaad thi apne bachpan se. Jab unhone soz padhna shuru kiya to main bhi soz padhne laga unke saath. Dheere-dheere soz ki aawaz tez hoti gai aur saamne screen par jo bhi chal raha ttha uski aawaz kam hoti gai. Tabhi mere mobile phone ki ghanti baj gayi. Maine aankhein khol di aur is duniya mein wapas aa gaya.
Toh ye sab khwab thhe jo dekhe gaye aur jinmein mere walid sahab bhi dikhe. In sab khwabon se ham logon ko kucch sukoon mila hai, kucch haunsla mila hai.
Ab daddy ki rooh seedhe taur par toh hamse baat nahi kar rahi, lekin in khwabon ke zariye shayad daddy ne apne roohani wujood ko hamare saamne zaahir karne ki koshish ki hai.
In khwabon se shayad wo ham logon ko ye baat batane ki koshish kar rahe hain ki wo khairiyat se hain aur apne chaahnewalo ke beech mein hain Alam-e-Barzakh mein.
Shukran-allah.